Seducing Older Women

Seducing Older Women

Seducing older women can be really great when you know what you are doing. When you don't know what you are doing on the other hand it can be very daunting and embarassing.

Some people feel pretty strange when it comes to their desire for seducing older women but the truth is that you shouldn't. Nearly all guys have some kind of fantasy about seducing an older woman but very few actually have the courage to go through with it.

People are generally scared to make the first move when it comes to seducing older women. They fear that their advances will be rejected and they will be left feeling stupid and embarassed.

Well hopefully this little post will help you out.

We all have different prospects in mind that we want to seduce, maybe it is your best friends mom, maybe it is an old school teacher that you had a crush on when you were younger or maybe you just have a thing for older women. Whatever your reasons, it doesn't matter, the most important thing to do though is to make sure that you actually make a move and do something about it.

You Will Never Get Anywhere Unless You Take Action

Seducing older women doesn't follow the same priniciples as seducing women your own age. No I'm afraid that the baggy shorts, backward baseball cap and the ability to drink more alcohol than anyone else in your dorm won't cut it when it comes to seducing older women. If that sounds like you then you need to re-invent yourself...at least when you are in the company of your desired lady.

Older women like guys that are more mature for their age. This doesn't mean that you have to be a stiff - it just means that you need to be a refined gentlemen with school boy charm. Find out what the woman likes, what is she interested in. You, naturally have to become interested in these topics too, it gives you something in common. As a matter of fact it is a proven fact that people who like the same things have a much greater chance of liking each others personality. Age doesn't come into it.

Focus On Her Assets Not Her Ass

When you are chatting to her, you should focus on the positives, not the negatives. If she has a killer rack don't just blurt it out, but you could gently slip it into the conversation. Maybe somebody has had breast surgery on the TV, I'm sure you could manage to strike up a conversation about then it would just be a matter of asking what her views on breast surgery are. You obviously would tell her that she doesn't need it and she has great boobs! Maybe not in those words. She will laugh the comment off no doubt - people get shy when they receive compliments but she will be thinking about what you said!!

You really just need to strike up a friendship with your prospect, you can't just fire in with all guns blazing or you will be knocked down in your prime!! You need to gain the womans trust first and make her see that you are mature enough to go to bed with a mature woman. That is the secret guys. It can be a bit of work but believe me - there is nothing hotter than a secret relationship with a more experienced woman.

Further Reading

There is a great squidoo lens about seducing older women that you should read - it has some great tips on there that should keep you on top of your game. They are promoting a product called Guy Gets Girl which I have to admit I bought. It's a book aimed at teaching guys how to seduce women and not specifically about seducing older women. Saying that though - the techniques work really well for me with all women which is great because I am no Brad Pitt!! You can check out their site here or alternatively visit the squidoo lens on seducing older women here.